Zen is letting go of all of your desires.
Then you will find the true way.
Zen Master Hyon Ja: Hakuin’s Baby
It becomes so difficult to stop looking at ourselves and what we want. This is the biggest problem: want, desire… we want and desire all day long sometimes. Waking up means to stop. Stop and consider the situation in front of you: how can we help? What is my function in any situation? What is my relationship with what is happening?